I’m the Supreme Authority on This One Subject

On what subject(s) are you an authority?

When asked, “On what subject are you an authority?” my answer is simple—but powerful:

‘I’m the supreme authority on one subject—’ my own life.

I don’t carry a fancy title or a string of credentials behind my name—not in the traditional sense, anyway. But what I do have is something far more powerful: an unshakable belief that I am the ultimate authority over my own path, choices, and growth.

That might sound bold. But it’s the truth I live by.

For years, I chased the idea that validation had to come from the outside—from experts, systems, or someone with more experience, more education, more something. But somewhere along the way, I realized: no one is better positioned to understand and lead my life than me.

That shift in mindset changed everything.

I became a student of life, diving into books, conversations, courses, and experiences that spoke to my curiosity and values. I didn’t limit myself to one path. Instead, I explored widely—philosophy, science, self-development, practical skills. Each piece of knowledge became a tool in my personal toolbox, each new skill a stepping stone that helped me navigate life’s twists and turns with a little more clarity and confidence.

This journey wasn’t about collecting accolades. It was about owning my growth.

Armed with what I’ve learned—and continue to learn—I make better choices. I understand myself more deeply. I take risks more thoughtfully. I live with intention. Of course, there are still roadblocks—but now, I meet them with resilience and creativity rather than doubt and fear.

In embracing my autonomy, I’ve become more than just a participant in my life—I’ve become the architect of it. And it feels liberating.

I share this not to boast, but because I believe this truth is universal: each of us holds the potential to be the primary authority in our own story. We don’t need permission to grow, to lead, or to live with purpose. We just need to decide that we are enough—and then act like it.

So here I stand, unapologetically claiming my space. I’m not waiting for a title or a certificate to tell me I’m worthy. I know I am. I know my subject—and I rule it completely.

And if no one has told you lately: so are you.

Let’s write our stories like we mean them.